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Most Recent Posts

  • Remento to Preserve the Memory of Your Family
    A Remento keepsake book is an amazing way to preserve family memories for lifetimes to come! It’s so easy to use, there is no writing required, and even grandparents can complete it from their phone or computer by voice recording.
  • 10 Years Sober: What I’ve Learned and How Far I’ve Come
    Are you wondering how to get and stay sober? Once I hit 10 years sober I felt I’d got this down pretty well and want to share with you how I got sober, what I’ve learned, and how I’ve stayed sober for so long.
  • How to Have a Sober St. Patrick’s Day You’ll Enjoy and Remember
    Are you sober and wondering how to have a sober St. Patrick’s Day? Here are some tips on how I’ve stayed sober over the years, some fun sober St. Patty’s activities you can do, craft ideas for the kids, and the actual history of St. Patrick and this day.
  • Easter Basket Ideas for Kids that Aren’t Candy
    Wondering what to put in your kids’ Easter baskets? If you’re like me and like to go beyond the traditional candy, here are some Easter basket ideas for kids that aren’t candy, broken down by age.
  • Slowly Losing My Mom to Early Onset Alzheimer’s Disease is so Painful
    It’s so hard having my mom, especially so young, slowly dying of Early-Onset Alzheimer’s Disease. She was diagnosed 8 years ago when she was 59, and since then so much has changed. I’m lucky that my mom is still alive but she hasn’t known who she is, or who we are, for several years now. The long goodbye is really hard.
  • The Disappointment of Mother’s Day That Many Mothers Feel
    The disappointment of Mother’s Day is a real thing. Mother’s Day is all about celebrating moms but for many, it falls flat. This can lead to disappointment, resentment, and feeling like all hard work we do isn’t appreciated.
  • How I Discovered I Have Hashimoto’s in Addition to Hypothyroidism & What I Did To Feel Better
    Have you recently been diagnosed with Hashimoto’s Disease and are wondering where to go from here? Here is my Hashimoto’s story and the resources I suggest which have really helped me on my Hashimoto’s journey.
  • Best Toddler Basketball Hoop for Hours of Fun
    Are you looking for the best toddler basketball hoop that your child will love for years? We were too and found our favorite one that has an adjustable basketball hoop, comes with basketballs, is durable, and will last from the time you have young kids to older kids.
  • Student Planner Printable 426 Pages of Planning
    Are you looking for a student planner that will help you stay organized all school year and has everything you need? The digital school year planner can be used digitally or printed out and put into a binder. 

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As a mom of identical twins and a son two years older, I have gained invaluable experience in the realm, and chaos, of parenting. With a Master's Degree and Education Specialist Degree in School Psychology, I spent years as a school psychologist, helping children navigate through their educational and emotional challenges. Now as a stay at home mom and professional blogger, I combine my areas of expertise to help you in your parenting journey.