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  • Schedule for 1 Year Old Twins (plus 3 year old singleton)
    Curious what a day in the life of 1 year old twins and a 3 year old is like? Here is our schedule for 1 year old twins and older singleton. We found a schedule to help calm some of the chaos of three littles!
  • When to Transition from a Toddler Bed to a Twin Bed for Twins
    Knowing when to transition from toddler beds to twin beds for your twins can be a tricky situation. You want to be sure that they’re developmentally ready, that they have say in the change, and yet do it without disrupting their bedtime routine and sleep! 
  • Home Remedies for Teething Pain for Twins, Especially at Night
    When your twins are teething, nighttime is rougher than usual! When it came to my twins teething, here are the things that helped throughout the day and at night.
  • Book Review of Fierce Delight: Poems of Early Motherhood
    If you’re looking for a book of poetry that will speak to you and put into words your feelings around motherhood, you’ll love my friend Emily Bright’s new book, Fierce Delight. It’s full of poems about motherhood and beyond.
  • The Best Breast Pump for Twins for Exclusively Pumping
    Are you expecting twins and looking for the best breast pump for twins? Whether you’re exclusively pumping or just wanting to build your milk supply, this post will help you make your decision on the best breast pump for you. 
  • 20+ Mother’s Day Gift Ideas She’ll Actually Want!
    Wondering what to get the mom or moms in your life for Mother’s Day? Here are over 20 Mother’s Day gift ideas she’s sure to love!
  • Twin Due Date Calculator for Twin Pregnancy
    Are you pregnant with twins but not sure when you’ll deliver due to different types of identical twins being delivered at different times? I’m a mom of identical MoDi Twins and I created this twin due date calculator to help you determine what to expect!
  • Gifts for Babies Under 1 for Learning and Play
    Are you looking for fun gift ideas for babies under 1 that will be fun to play with and help them learn? I’ve got some great toys for babies your little one is going to love!
  • Printable Daily Infant Report Sheets for Twins
    Having a printable daily infant report for your twins where you can keep track of both of them on one page is a HUGE help! Whether you’re a stay-at-home mom, nanny, daycare provider, or child care center, this daily report is a great way to keep

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As a mom of identical twins and a son two years older, I have gained invaluable experience in the realm, and chaos, of parenting. With a Master's Degree and Education Specialist Degree in School Psychology, I spent years as a school psychologist, helping children navigate through their educational and emotional challenges. Now as a stay at home mom and professional blogger, I combine my areas of expertise to help you in your parenting journey.