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  • The Importance of a Gluten-Free Facility when Gluten-Sensitive or Celiac
    Have you been gluten-free for years yet still have symptoms? You need to look deeper at what you eat, including whether it’s made in a gluten-free facility or not. I learned this the hard way.
  • 10+ Fun Black Friday Deals on Toys for Kids
    Getting a great deal on Black Friday on Toys for Kids is a huge win in my book! It’s one of the few times that big brands like Lego go on sale and hundreds of other toys are marked down more than the rest of the year! That means you can either buy more OR save more! (I like to do both) Keep reading to see some of the best Black Friday Deals on Toys for Kids for this year!
  • The Sleepeasy Solution Book Review to Help Your Twins Sleep
    Are you longing for a good night’s sleep but not sure where to start? We were in that situation with our twins and this book helped immensely!! From sample schedules, sleep charts, checking in, and step-by-step directions on how to make a plan, the Sleepeasy Solution book helped us get our twins to finally sleep!
  • Best Reusable Water Bottles for Kids and Adults
    Water bottles are essential anytime but especially in the summer! Here are some great options for everyone from kids to adults, plastic to stainless steel to glass.
  • Gift Ideas for Kids and Adults
    Are you looking for the perfect gift for someone special in your life? Here is an array of gift ideas for everyone in your life.
  • 8 Year Old Boy Birthday Gift Ideas My Boys Love
    Looking for 8 year old boy birthday gift ideas? Here are a bunch he’s sure to love for his birthday or Christmas! I’m going off the birthday list of my 8-year-old boy to help you find the perfect gift for your 8-year-old in this gift
  • Fun Gift Ideas for 7-Year-Olds that don’t Involve Screens
    Looking for fun gift ideas for 7-year-olds? I sat my 7-year-old down and asked him all about his favorite things so we could share it with you to help you on your shopping journey!
  • 15+ Games and More Gift Ideas for 6-Year-Olds
    There are so many great games and more gift ideas for 6-year-olds that my twins love! Gifts for 6-year-olds can be hard to decide on now that older kids have clear interests and already have so many toys! Here are the gifts our 6-year-oldsasked for this year and was very excited to receive!
  • 5 Year Old Birthday Gift Ideas for All Kids
    Are you looking for awesome gifts for 5-year-olds?! I’ve gathered 11 gift ideas that your kids are sure to love based on what my twins loved when they were 5!

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As a mom of identical twins and a son two years older, I have gained invaluable experience in the realm, and chaos, of parenting. With a Master's Degree and Education Specialist Degree in School Psychology, I spent years as a school psychologist, helping children navigate through their educational and emotional challenges. Now as a stay at home mom and professional blogger, I combine my areas of expertise to help you in your parenting journey.